The Marriage Ceremony
Beginning a Jewish Family
Family traditions add extra meaning to our Jewish customs. Are
there special customs in your family? Do they give a particular
meaning to your celebration of the holidays? For example, do the
Shabbat candles seem to glow especially warmly because your
mother lights them in candlesticks that once belonged to your
great-grandmother? Do the matzah balls at your Passover seder
taste better than others because your father follows his
grandmother's recipe when he makes them?
Customs and traditions are passed from one generation to the
next, from grandmother to grandson, from father to daughter, from
aunt to cousin. This process keeps Judaism alive. That is why the
family is very important in Jewish life.
The creation of a new family begins with a wedding. When two
people marry, they set up a new Jewish home, a place where they
will share holidays and life-cycle events with other family
members and with friends. Because the wedding ceremony celebrates
the continuation of the Jewish family, it is one of the happiest
of all life-cycle events.
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